Known for her candid opinions on Loose Women, she is now recognized as Britain’s most straightforward advice columnist, addressing issues related to sex, relationships, and life challenges.
Dear Coleen
Managing parenthood with an 18-month-old child has dominated our lives, causing strain on our relationship.
With a significant gap in our intimate life, the prospect of reigniting it feels increasingly uncomfortable. Fortunately, my partner’s parents have graciously offered to babysit, enabling us to enjoy a weekend getaway together, a rare occurrence for us.
Despite my anticipation for this break, I also harbor apprehensions. The absence of distractions, such as our baby’s cries or work responsibilities, might create pressure for physical intimacy and heighten expectations.
We haven’t discussed our hopes for the weekend beyond the excitement of having a relaxed morning.
While we both welcome this break, there is an underlying nervousness. Any suggestions on how we can rekindle our connection during this getaway? It feels overdue and crucial for our relationship.
Coleen’s Advice
Relaxing and enjoying each other’s company would be beneficial. My suggestion is to not overthink the situation beforehand. Allow yourself to be in the moment; you might find yourselves naturally drawn to each other or simply opt for a restful night’s sleep upon arrival.
Release the pressure by avoiding preconceived notions and concerns; focus instead on unwinding and taking a well-deserved break. Perhaps you’ll find an opportune moment to discuss your relationship, but let it occur organically.
When you are relaxed and free from distractions, deeper conversations may naturally arise, fostering a deeper connection.
Prioritize enjoying each other’s company, sharing laughter, and indulging in relaxation. A positive and fun-filled experience may pave the way for intimate moments to follow without pressure.
If things don’t unfold as expected, don’t fret. Reconnecting and rebuilding intimacy during this weekend getaway can lay the foundation for rekindling your physical relationship.
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