Known for her candid opinions on Loose Women, she has now become Britain’s most straightforward advice columnist, addressing issues related to sex, relationships, and life challenges.
Dear Coleen,
I am a man in my thirties who is married and seeking guidance regarding a situation involving a female friend who is also married. Our families are part of the same social circle, and we often spend time together.
Although I have sensed an attraction between us, neither of us has acknowledged it. I am committed to my spouse and have no intention of betraying her.
During a recent trip to a Greek island with friends, this woman, after consuming alcohol, made advances towards me, expressing her attraction. Concerned about the situation, I gently redirected her attention and later her husband intervened.
She has not mentioned the incident since, and I have learned from another friend that her marriage has been facing difficulties.
I am unsure whether I should address this issue with her, as my priority is to avoid any misunderstanding with my wife.
Coleen’s Response:
It is possible that she may not recall the incident or feel embarrassed about her actions. Your concern likely stems from the underlying chemistry between you, despite your ethical behavior.
If you are uncomfortable concealing this from your spouse, consider a diplomatic approach such as expressing your observation about her behavior and distancing yourself from their social circle temporarily.
Reflect on why this incident has unsettled you. Is it due to unreciprocated feelings towards your friend?
While the situation may be uncomfortable, remember that nothing inappropriate occurred, and it is crucial to avoid future circumstances that could lead to similar encounters. If it recurs, make your disinterest clear.
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